And no one around me cares about what your going thru, or even matters to anyone. He actually will say I am making his depression worse…and then turn around and tell me he loves me and not to give up on him. I ve had Thyroid issues for a long time and my depression comes from my thyroid problems some of thyroid symptoms are: Feeling shaky Sad Mood swings Not interested in sex You gain weight without a reason. I turn to my husband everyday and he helps to ease my pain. With a reduction in problems, there would be more energy, room, time, and resources available for happy productive activity, as the person chooses. However, we still function well as a family as we hardly ever fight and our kids are very happy and emotionally stable.
I have been married for 5 years. I often wish I could just detach like he did from us. We did not have a home, a car, a bank account or cash flow. You can always change therapists if need be. You can choose what you focus on during your day.
Im hoping you will be notified by my reply and i hope to hear from you. It was impossible for me to go out and socially drink without getting hammered. Holding out the faint hope that things will improve, but not at all sure they can or will. I feel that there is something unclean or unholy about me. We have actually tried that before. I worry about him directing it at her as well. I was afraid of their reactions.
Try to educate yourself about depression as much as you can. I guess I stay in the hopes that I get my husband back. An hour later he came to me and sat on the bed. What a perfect way to escape my dark passenger. She said i was a great person but she just couldnt build on the relationship at this time because she was stressed but she wanted to stay in touch with me because i brought joy into her life.
I only have my daughter to fight for. I feel i will never recuperste and at 54 i will find it hard finzncislly to make it alone. I have been so sad for so long i dont remember what its like to really laugh or smile. Remember, you will be sharing some of your personal thoughts with your therapist, and trust is a must. I felt guilty but now that i knew seems like im even lossingg more and more of him. My husband has been depressed for years and I think about leaving him on a daily basis.
It sounds like she is reacting defensively, perhaps she too feels blamed. Thank you, and may you find strength and courage to rebuild your life. I posted the first comment on here almost 2 years ago and still trying to live with this illness. For others it is chronic and the person must learn to manage it themselves. I do have some will to live, though that might just be my fear of physical pain. Yeah well I have all the symptoms for a few years now everyday. He is not very verbally abusive, but he just becomes nonverbal, moving around the house a shadow of his former self, as if he were in prison.
The is the proposed 'ideal' ratio for pack survival, such that if you have too few sensitives, then the pack will figurative plow forward off a cliff like stereotypical lemmings, while having too many sensitives means the pack may accomplish very little. I have had plenty of struggles in my life to test my resolve; I probably know myself better than most people. All of his unhappiness is apparently my fault. I will pray for you always. I cared for her each day as he worked and lids attended school. I have been subject to abuse from school and a cruel granfather who would make fun of me and beat me. I know how you feel, I would have never married my husband had I known that this was going to happen.
Perhaps the most succinct is the verb Nam of Namaste. Things that would only slightly stress out other people can completely wreck my life. Some say he left me but I know better, he left all of us in order to find himself. However he sounds a lot like my husband and my husband thrives when I praise him for doing a good job. His death had a great impact on many friends and family.